Recovery - Part 2

Recovery: restoration or return to any former and better condition

Ok folks now that we’ve set some parameters, let’s get strapped in and embark on your journey of Recovery.

Since there seems to be a lot of misconceptions as to what Recovery actually is and what it involves, let’s start by taking a look at what Recovery isn’t. 

         Recovery IS NOT;

                  Attending meetings

                  Being clean and/or being sober

                 Getting a job

                 Saying “I’m sorry”

                 Attending church

                 Doing service work

                 Making restitution

                 Working the steps with a sponsor

While all these things are good and will help you on your Recovery Journey, of themselves they are not Recovery.  Being returned to any former and better condition involves much more that what is listed above.  The Recovery Journey does take time, energy, patience and discipline. 

But most importantly, Your success is dependent upon you giving yourself over to three character traits:  willingness, open mindedness and honesty.  If you will employ these into a planned program of action, Recovery is very possible for you.

Simple-just not easy.

Give this some thought for a bit and we’ll pick it up here next time.

Until then ……. be sure to tell a friend about us.

Thanks for visiting us – come back soon.

Remember:  “It is what it is and “it ain’t nothing but a thing!”   

STOP THE PRESSES

September is National Alcohol and Drug Addiction Recovery Month

STOP THE PRESSES

It has come to our attention, through your responses, that there are a lot of folks out there that don’t understand what their problem and/or issue really is.  They know that they have a problem but aren’t sure just what that problem really is or what to do about it. 

So before we go any further with the topic of “Recovery”, we’re going to pause and make a statement here.  Up until now Your Daily Fix Blog has discussed the topics of Hope, Believe, Faith, and Denial, topics that can be of benefit to any and everyone.  We have not focused on a specific issue, hang-up, problem or addiction yet. 

It would be nearly impossible for us to list every hurt, hang-up, problem, addiction or 12 Step Program here, much less adequately discuss them.  So starting with our next post, we will begin dealing directly with alcohol and drug addiction and the Recovery from those.  Although we feel very strongly that the mechanics of a solid 12 Step Program are similar and that anyone can benefit from working in one, the subject matter that we are going to begin using may not be specific enough for your particular situation.  As much as we would like to keep everyone here with us, it is much more important to us that you find the place where You can get the help and information that You need.  That is why our website lists so many different areas of help.  From overeating to shopaholic, from sex/porn addiction, to gambling, from abuse and molestation to suicide help etc.    Additionally, you will find link and/or contact information for shelters in your area and other resources if you’re homeless. Remember:

Our primary purpose is to help others who are suffering from addictions, hurts and other destructive issues by carrying the message of Hope to them. 

 

We ARE NOT doctors, therapists, psychologist, psychiatrist, etc. but we have graduated from the School of Hard Knocks.  With honors I might add.  What we present here is from our own experience and from what we have learned by working with others in the recovery arena.  We strongly encourage everyone to seek the advice of medical and/or mental health professionals before embarking on any recovery effort. They are better equipped to assess your individual needs.

We are not shutting the door on anyone here, we will still be here to help anyone in any way that we can.  While we welcome you to stay with us or to at least visit us often while we discuss Recovery, we do encourage you to seek the recovery arena that is best suited to your specific
need(s). 

That being said, join us again soon as we will be sharing a lot of good information and discussing your comments on Recovery.  We are really excited that God has allowed us to coincide our discussion on “Recovery” with National Alcohol and Drug Addiction Recovery Month. 

Until then ……. be sure to tell a friend about us.

Thanks for visiting us – come back soon.

Remember:  “It is what it is and “it ain’t nothing but a thing!” 

Recovery - Part 1

Recovery: restoration or return to any former and better condition

We hope that everyone had a great Labor Day Weekend and that you are strapped in and ready to take off on your journey to Recovery.

For those of you that have been with us before, you have probably noticed the word recovery mentioned in our previous posts.  But what is Recovery?  How does one achieve recovery? Can I recover?

These are excellent questions and it is our desire that by the time that we are done discussing this topic- you will understand what recovery is and more importantly what recovery isn’t.

But in order for us to adequately examine Recovery, we need your input.  We are asking you to contact us by any of the methods listed below and tell us your thoughts, experiences and concerns on this topic.

Email:  bryanj@yourdailyfix.org

Phone:  (205) 514-5279 (text messages accepted)
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“Ask A Question” Form

What do you think recovery is?  Can one achieve recovery?  If so, how?   Etc.  As always, all comments are anonymous and we never sell, rent or share your personal information so relax and contact us today.

Join us again soon as we begin to discuss Recovery and your comments about it. 

Until then ……. be sure to tell a friend about us.

Thanks for visiting us – come back soon.

Remember:  “It is what it is and “it ain’t nothing but a thing!”  

Labor Day

 

 



"We here at Your Daily Fix hope that all of you have a safe, fun, happy, clean and sober Labor Day Weekend."

"Join us Tuesday as we begin to explore the topic Recovery."

Until then ... be sure to tell a friend about us.

Thanks for visiting us - come back soon!

Remember: “It is what it is and “it ain’t nothing but a thing!”



Denial - Conclusion

Denial: A person's refusal to admit or accept that he or she has an addiction problem

It is our hope that, at the very least, a seed has been planted within you about your issue(s) and that you are ready to face your problem(s) and begin the journey down the road to Recovery.

We have put a big emphasis on Denial because it is a huge stumbling block in the Recovery arena.  If you can’t admit that There Is a problem, that YOU have a problem or that YOU are a problem, you CAN NOT successfully Recover.  Period!  Not being negative here, just honest.

Join us next time as we start our discussion on Recovery, after which we will begin an in-depth look at the 12 Steps.

We welcome your questions and/or comments on this issue so call, text or e-mail them in.
   
Reminder:  Visit our website and click the “12 Steps” tab and review the Steps that we will be discussing soon.  While you are there read over the glossary of terms that we are using.

Until then ….. be sure to tell a friend about us.

Thanks for visiting us – come back soon.

Remember: “It is what it is and “it ain’t nothing but a thing!”

Denial - More of Living in the Lie

Well, hello folks.  We’re back.  Thank you guys for your patience with our absence.  We got a lot of ground to make up so let’s get right to it.

Denial:  A person's refusal to admit or accept that he or she has an addiction problem

According to the Mayo Clinic staff, “If you’re in denial, you’re not being realistic about something that is happening in your life-something that might be obvious to those around you.”

Have you ever wondered why some people have shied away from you? Do you get tired of hearing that you are selfish or that you’re lazy or that you are a worthless bum?  Are you tired of being asked “where have you been,” “why are you late,”  “what have you been doing,” etc?   Do you feel that everyone is down on you, out to get you or that everyone else is wrong?

How about the “no one understands me,” “Why can’t people just leave me alone,” “I’m not hurting anybody,” “it’s my business,” etc? 

Do any of these sound familiar?  If so, then it’s a good bet that you are in denial about something in your life.

I mean, seriously, do you really think that everyone is wrong?  Have you ever honestly considered that they have a reason to ask and/or point out these things?

I know and realize that it is possible for us to not see ourselves at times.  However, I also realize that if we are having problems and if folks are on us and bringing up stuff, then we really need to take a look in the mirror and come to grips with who and what we see.

So, taking off the gloves here folks, if you can’t get real and be honest, rigorously honest, then You Have a Zero Percentage for Success in Recovery.  It is what it is!  And until you come to terms with your issue(s) you will continue to progressively get worse. Period!

Join us next time as we conclude denial.  Thanks again for your patience.

Until then ….. be sure to tell a friend about us.

Thanks for visiting us - come back soon!

Remember: “It is what it is and “it ain’t nothing but a thing!”

Back Again!

Hey Folks!  Haven't forgot about you - just life being life.  I have had some family issues that needed my immediate attention.  Will return shortly.  Thanks for your patience.

In the meantime - a bit of humor for you to enjoy.

Be sure to come back soon as we will be continuing regular posts shortly.

Until then ..... be sure to tell a friend about us.

Thanks for visiting us - come back soon.

Remember: "It is what it is and "it ain't nothing but a thing!"